On the other hand, I don’t think there is anything wrong with disliking other people’s bad behavior. I admit that I find it difficult not to associate the idea of a ‘feminine man’ with gross behaviors such as shallowness/vanity, gossiping, self centeredness, etc. I have to constantly remind myself to look at a persons willful behaviors, not their inate mannerisms, when deciding if I want them around me or not.