Thanks Maria! All very good points… Misogyny (and “misandry”, if that’s even a word) is an ugly thing in any community… I personally am a feminist (by the dictionary definition at least, not the opposite of chauvinist, which is totally different). As far as communities are concerned, I am reminded of a Kurt Vonnegut novel called “Cat’s Cradle” in which the topic of artificial or imagined communities is a central theme; the idea is that many people are under false impressions as to “where they belong”. 🙂